I can kill foxes but I can't kill wolves. Not in real life, obviously – in real life I send emails eight hours a day – but in The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom, where every animal is an arrow away from becoming a fortifying meal. Shoot a wolf and you'll be rewarded with a thick red slab of raw prime meat, but I can't do it, I just can't do it, even though they often attack me in packs. They look too much like dogs. I can kill a fox – even though they never attack me, and they often let out sad little yelps – but many other gamers can't.

In recent years, we've seen an influx of self-proclaimed "cozy games," video games explicitly designed to invoke good vibes. To help those who could use some help winding down, we've rounded up a selection of games that purposefully deemphasize fail states, violence, overwhelming grinds, intense competition and other aggressive urges, but aren't overly cute for the sake of it or so stripped-down that they're boring. This open-ended sim has you fix up a dilapidated farm and interact with nearby townsfolk. Apart from being one of our favorite couch co-op games, the farming life sim Stardew Valley is also notable for its relaxing qualities. It's a game that's willing to meet you at your pace: If you want to putter around your farm, casually chat up townsfolk, brew beer or fish for a few hours, you can.

Are video games better than sex? That's the sort of ludicrous question that is only posed by someone who has never had sex, or is searching for an attention-grabbing way to open an article about a cleaning simulator. However, I will say this: last week I had the opportunity to have it off but I played PowerWash Simulator instead, and honestly I'm not sure I had a worse time. Maybe it's to do with age. Like every middle-aged female gamer I know, I love Lara Croft.